I am in a stage of my life where I don’t want to engage in any relationship and fear the odds of a relationship, I feel its a risk not worth taking now till am ready although riped. Early Past experience and misfortunes really turns me off from dating.

‘They say you have to put yourself out there if you really want a date’ but in my case I need and don’t want to give a trial. Weekly I came across potential dates for some moments I’ll just put the candle off(not interested).

Am In a circle of Night clubs where I can get a one night stand. Why do I not still intertwined with this relationship stuff, if you’re curious to know; I have fear of attachment, I am high in emotions, easily attached and polygamous in affections.

Even though my financial variability is nothing to write home about, there are still free scouts.

Heart Break

Have you ever been heart broken before?

Separation” Is A Wound That No One Can “Heal” But “Remembrance” Is A Gift That No One Can “Steal”…Keep Your Memories Intact and a heart breaking isn’t always as loud as a bomb exploding Sometimes it can be as quiet as a feather falling & The most painful thing is, no one really hears it except you.

Heart break is something that’s inevitable as long as we breath air, but can only be reduced to a minimal occurrence. I had heart break many times, a thing about heart break is that it takes something from you, leave a thing in you called Scar and a lesson is always learnt. Its like a wound that won’t healed in a hurry, it undergoes processes.

Break up or split occurs for a thousands reason; Couples or Two people in an intimate relationship may part ways if there are or something isn’t clicking. I have witnessed a 10-year relationship go down the drain, Marriage after 20years+ meet a Shock end Divorce.

Circumstances and Differences plays a part in partner split not necessarily that two people are or become incompatible but things surrounding their life aren’t compatible. You may love a guy so much that you would say YES before he even proposes, but Life Differences come into play; it may be backgrounds,culture, medical Genetic related or even our income and above all goals and desires.

Many people date to an extent despite knowing Marriage dreams aren’t possible with their partner, but because the love this person so much; all odds, question are neglected thus leading to heart breaks when the relationship reaches it peak.

I have dated many and love with all my heart but every single moment am alone in thoughts, I have this doubt of we ending together because of our Social and Ethnic difference, breaking these boundaries is not as easy as ABC…. Families will definitely kick against something they are not comfortable with or similar to their own niche; they feel their Lineage to live on.

More, Falling in Love is an easy something but cementing this Union as couple is a huge difficulty. While some Heart breaks are due to Lack of Trust and Commitment in the relationship, it’s also occurs due to cheating and having many dates.

According to GIGI ENGLE When your heart is broken, it can feel like the end of the world. No amount of pain has ever felt so agonizing or concentrated. It’s like a giant hole was pummeled into your chest, with no hope of repair. Nobody wants or like to share their spouse with anyone. This bring about Jealousy. Read , I had to me go

I don’t care of Love