A lot of guys don’t know when to ask a girl out.

Rather than reading the signs she’s ready, they keep chatting and milk the conversation for too long.

The girl quickly loses interest and they don’t understand where they went wrong.

NEWSFLASH: Girls do not want to have long drawn out conversations over text. They want you to be a man and ask her out!

After all, the longer you talk to her the more likely you are to say something stupid and screw everything up. You will also lose all your mystery and destroy her excitement for meeting up with you. If everything’s already been said over text then what’s the point in meeting up?

In fact, so many guys thrive off the validation of her texting back they forget to ask her out altogether!

So listen up, because whenever you see any one of these IOI’s (Indicators of Interest) you should pull the trigger IMMEDIATELY and set up the date:

She starts replying faster, texting you more, and initiating conversations herself

She agrees with many of your points of view

She’s giggling like a schoolgirl with a crush

She asks your opinion on something she likes that might put you off, e.g. “would you totally hate me if I told you I was a Believer? ”

She sends you photos of herself dressed sexy (i.e. she’s qualifying herself to you)

She tells you she’s been exercising or doing yoga (i.e. she’s great in bed)

If you feel like you’re getting sucked into a conversation and for whatever reason it’s not the right time to ask her out then you need to END the conversation.

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