A Close friend of mine had an experience, so we chat about it.
Are you sure you want a relationship with him/her?
3 years is more than enough for someone to Fall in love with you…
How does she perceive you..does she lingers around you…enjoys your company?
Directly or indirectly….
First impression matters
But it is natural for other to feel that way towards us
Love is Trust…
Try a trick…
Give him or her space…
Maybe their feelings for you may grow
I have many experiences like that…
Trust me…if you really want him or her..
Things has to change. .Some things…
Note that Attraction is never forced or imposed it is induced.
Something may never change..but don’t give up if you really love her..
Note you should never allow yourself to be a slave of your feelings
You came too strong on her at 1st or she didn’t believe the attraction coming
Love is a thing.. But To love is a decision
Once it has been decided it very hard to undo
that’s why break up hurts. In those days I go to any length to achieve my aim.
The Lady I truly love naturally turn me down once. Lets Adjust our personality, be open to everyone. Change our clothing style Etcetera; not for anyone but our yourself and people will perceived us differently they way we want them to.
Attraction builds Interest….
Work on Attraction…
But don’t forget. We shouldn’t be a slave to our feelings.
There are 8 billon people on earth..half are women
So there are many women and Men out there who appreciates You.
We shouldn’t be false down..although our hearts and Desire take us wild..
Some feelings can never be changed
Some people end up falling in love with us automatically and we end up turning them down Automatically unknowingly.
Believe it or not someone out there is highly interested in us but Each and everyday, We hurt them 100% accidentally..
Don’t forget Love is Peace,Patient,Kind and Perseverance.
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