This Big Question bring me back to a post I wrote Why dating is hard?
There are Many reasons people date but here is a major
According to Oxford definition Companionship is the pleasant feeling you have when you have a friendly relationship with someone and you aren’t alone. Emotions are strong feeling such as love, fear or anger and so on.
Humans needs this sense of feeling and belonging from the opposite sex. Loneliness drown the soul. Before getting married We need that person to spice up our day after a hard day job. We feel emotionally balance when we are cared for. The thoughts that someone out there care and participate in all our endeavours is so heart warming.
Although there is an phenomena between both sexes. Some people we meet in life are ladder of success or building blocks while some are to make us learnt a lesson from an experience(false down).
Will you marry the Person you are Presently Dating?
Read Courtship and Dating
This question is one of the most difficult question on Person when asked People are asked. Some will date few years or more but when asked. They can’t give a clear answer. That’s because acceptance of being someone life partner is different from accepting to be a Boyfriend or Girlfriend. Marriage is for better and Worse
Are you Scared?
If so why should you be scared of spending the rest of your life with someone you adore presently. Let me give you one of my Expertise.
Marriage entails a lot more than just love and Ecstasy. Just like an educational institution. You have to read to pass, to pass you have to study, to study you need time,attendance and materials.
A Marriage Partner is a partner for life, remember marital Vows;
“Till death do us Part”
Sometimes Personality of our partners or ours keeps us in doubts, procrastination. Financial Strength is a grave course. No finance no self esteem.
Okay let me put it this way, Imagine a walk pass at a Fashion store or online stores a Grade one Shoe catches your eyes and you love it. you even spend some minutes adventuring how it will fit on you. You’ll sure become a point of attention and when you see the price tag, you gave up the idea at last Why?
- Financial Capability
- Scale of Preferences
- Social Acceptance
These are two out if many that may make your Partner not wanting to tie the knot now or later.
I have just highlighted why there is difficulty to this Question. Hope it helped
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